I got an email this morning stating that they should be able to get the relative placement figured out in the next day or two.
I also got permission to put the oldest in to his normal school for the next couple of days to give me a break during the day.
I met the teacher and she said that she had a meeting arranged for BM that day, and that she couldn't guarantee that they wouldn't see each other...
So, I had to call our social worker to get that all figured out.
I've only been home for about an hour, but it's significantly easier to handle things when the two oldest are separated.
Hopefully he'll come home good and tired, and we'll all have a better day tomorrow.